Wednesday, 18 January 2017

To Do Lists

Anyone who knows me will testify I live my life by my to do list. Not one single thing is organised in my life without a to do list. Even my blogs have a journal to write down all the ideas I have on blog posts 'to do' in the future.

However I'm beginning to see how sometimes to do lists become something of a burden so in recent months I've decided to rename them to re-frame them. They are now my 'Want To Do' list. This makes the things on the list less of a burden and more of an enjoyment. Mental trickery aside, I have wanted to do a session 'Want To Do' list that I think will bring me (and hopefully those involved) a lot of fun this year.

So here are the things that I will definitely have on my session 'Want to do list'

1. More bondage.

Is that a surprise? No, I guess not. I do enjoy my bondage and more so in the last year when I've done a lot of extended 4 hour sessions. However, this year I want to do at least one 6 hour session. I would like to spend basically the whole day having someone in bondage in various positions, changing the position as the mood takes me. I love the idea of having someone in extreme and challenging bondage at various points, but interlacing that will more mundane activities to amuse me. Something like having them in the cell or the cage locked in such a way that I could be on the other side playing a board game with them. Zapping their tender regions for every move they make on the board. I've got a few other cunning ideas but don't want to spoil the surprise too much.

2. Chastity.

This is something I've used more in session in the last year but I'd like to extend it beyond. I know this is not always practical for a lot of gentlemen but I find the idea of controlling someones orgasm and to an extent their arousal very appealing. I love the thought of texting them messages to increase the tease and torment whilst denying release. I realise this is not something new in the world of BDSM but it is new for me to want to extend control outwith the session.

3. More watersports and piss play.

This one I've done a lot of but my kinky mind is being drawn to more elaborate ways to use it with an added element. I've tended to get up close when administering watersports but I've been having lots of thoughts of making it very clinical and sci-fi like. I'm thinking a cross between mad scientist with chemistry beakers and the mechanics of a ventilator machine...forcing piss into the subject at regular intervals under the watchful eye of the sick nurse!

4. Medical bondage in the form of plaster casting.

This is something I've done years ago while wearing a different hat.  I'm now in the mood for doing it again but not in the usual way of course. I like the idea of casting one limb to another or casting the legs together fully all the way up to the thigh. That's certainly going to cause movement restriction. This is something that can't be done on a whim or even in an hour session so I'm going to have to plan it in advance but it will be worth it. A long medical session with catheterisation, breath control included will make this even more fun.

5. Cp. Again not anything new but I'm feeling the need to go further than before with Cp and especially caning this year. I just don't have enough people who can take a good hard beating, or who can have those kind of marks on them for obvious reasons. This makes me sad. Go on, make me happy and volunteer you butt for the sake of my mental health and a good workout!

So lastly here is a picture of me looking very stern and just a little cross. Exactly how I'll be in 2017 if I don't get what I want!

Keep kinky!

Lady Annisa


  1. I was recently reading that the most satisfaction is gained from completing tasks where the difficulty matches, but slightly exceeds, the level of skill of the person doing them... I suspect that given your high level of skill in these areas, Lady Annisa, the fun will be raising the difficulty level high enough!

  2. Which of your to do list have you been able to tick off most often Lady Annisa? By the pictures on your Twitter feed the chastity isn't doing too badly...! It's a shame there aren't more different designs, I think - I suspect you would enjoy devices that could render the subject immobile, untouchable, inescapable and restrained a few different ways!

    1. I've been experimenting with mental chastity too. That one has had a rather unfortunate outcome, well it is unfortunate for the slave concerned. Though you are right about the devices, there are many on the market and most have design flaws for certain gentlemen. It's trial and error mostly.

    2. What do you mean by mental chastity Lady Annisa? Your slave is ordered to remain chaste without a device, or that they may not even think "indecent thoughts"? May I ask what the unfortunate outcome was?

    3. The mental chastity was just to remain chaste without a device for a specific length of time. The unfortunate outcome was that he felt he was then allowed release without actually clarifying, he's still to be punished for that…:)

  3. I hope you're well, Lady Annisa. I've seen on your Twitter feed you've been ticking off some bondage and chastity - are you making any progress with the watersports or plaster casting?

    1. The watersports yes, making good progress on that. Not done the plaster casting yet and can't see me having an opportunity for a few months yet. It's all go go go here!

    2. I'm so sorry Lady Annisa, I didn't notice you'd replied to these! I'm glad you've made some progress with the watersports... like any sport, I'm sure, practice improves performance!