Monday, 10 July 2017

Auction Time Again

In previous years I've auctioned off a 2 hour session for my charity to add to the fundraising I'm already doing. This has proved very popular in the past as my chaps always like to support me while indulging in their kinks and perversions. And I in turn like to donate my time to the pain and punishment of my visitors. It's a win win situation for sure!

So I'm going to start the bidding at £100 for a 2 hour immersion in either my dungeon or my clinic, or even a bit of both.

A few rules from me though to take into consideration before bidding.

1. The bids must not be for sessions already booked.

2. I must have sessioned with you at least once before, ensuring our interests match.

3. The bids should be received by me by midnight on the 20 July

4. The session can be a general session, a medical session or a mixture of both.

5. You will have 3 months from the end of the auction to arrange a mutually suitable date for the session.

As before, all proceeds from the auction will go fully to my charity challenge. If you want to know more details I'll happily chat about it until the cows come home in person…. :) 

Happy Bidding!

Lady Annisa

Monday, 1 May 2017

Ramping up the Challenges

So it's May, how did that happen?

With just over 5 months to go to my challenge I'm stepping up my training this month to add in some gym work. If you know me at all you'll know I really don;t like the gym that much. The biggest reason is that I prefer to get my fitness fix outdoors and being in a testosterone filled environment is not what I'd call fun. However needs must as I want to add in some upper body muscle work and my hiking, running and cycling aint going to do that, so off to the gym I must go.

As well as increasing the physical side of the challenge, I'm upping the focus on fund raising this month. With that in mind I'm going to add in some incentive (perhaps it won't be??) to increase the donations to the charity box. I've done this particular one before and it proved quite successful so I'm offering it again. The idea is that for those wishing to pop a donation in the box during the month of May I will add on an extra half hour to your normal booked appointment. Now no getting funny ideas of popping £1 in the box and getting an extra half hour of my time for that….not that any of you lovely chaps would try that I'm sure.

If you want to add this to your normal appointment time during May then let me know so that I can factor that in to my schedule. 

And lastly for a bit of kink. Since I'm going to be working on my breathing for the altitude change, here's a nice kinky pic of me control someone else's breathing to help with the feeling of altitude sickness!

Lady Annisa

Wednesday, 12 April 2017

So For My Next Challenge

You'll be disappointed if you've come to this blog post hoping for some kinky goings on. I would say sorry to disappoint but I'm not that kinda gal!

Anyway, moving on. Those of you who come to see me will no doubt be aware of my next challenge but I'll put it out there for those not up to speed. As you may have noticed on twitter there have been a lot of scenery pictures, especially from mountain or hilltops. This is because I'm back in training for doing extreme hiking. It's been 5 years since I climbed Mount Kilimanjaro and that my friends is too long to leave between extreme challenges.  I have still been raising fund for Marie Curie with various other endeavours so the total raised is almost £10k. I'm a little bit short of it at the moment. So I'm self funding this trip and hoping to hit my target by the time I head off in October to hike in the Himalayas. 

This is where my loyal visitors, subs, patients and slaves can help out. I will be doing my usual things like auctioning off a session or two, extending sessions for a donation into the charity box and a few other inventive things I'm not letting on to at this moment. You can of course just pop a donation into the charity box at my chambers when you next visit, which of course will be much appreciated. 

One last thing to bare in mind, if I don't reach my target there will be lots of punishment doled out on my return.

Now here is a little selfie of Stern Nurse when she is just about to punish someone! 

Lady Annisa

Tuesday, 28 February 2017

New Medical Website

Well in case you've missed my twitter feed let me update you on my goings on. I've finally finished the updates or revamp to my medical site here, go look!

I've still got one or two things to add to the site. One is a whole new latex order that's almost in my sweaty palms. I'm waiting patiently today for the delivery which I hope is in time for a big all day session tomorrow that I might just make all about Latex. Or I might just make him wait, I'm sadistic like that!

Anyway, back to the site. There have been a few glitches as always with a new site but I think they've been resolved now. If you do see anything obvious please let me know.

With the launch of the new site and the added investments I've made (and still making) there has been a slight increase in the tribute. Details are on both websites. I'm sure as always you will agree….I'm worth it!

As an added side note, I've got one day availability on 6th April in Manchester. Should you wish to be considered for a session then get in touch via my website.

Keep kinky!

Lady Annisa

Wednesday, 18 January 2017

To Do Lists

Anyone who knows me will testify I live my life by my to do list. Not one single thing is organised in my life without a to do list. Even my blogs have a journal to write down all the ideas I have on blog posts 'to do' in the future.

However I'm beginning to see how sometimes to do lists become something of a burden so in recent months I've decided to rename them to re-frame them. They are now my 'Want To Do' list. This makes the things on the list less of a burden and more of an enjoyment. Mental trickery aside, I have wanted to do a session 'Want To Do' list that I think will bring me (and hopefully those involved) a lot of fun this year.

So here are the things that I will definitely have on my session 'Want to do list'

1. More bondage.

Is that a surprise? No, I guess not. I do enjoy my bondage and more so in the last year when I've done a lot of extended 4 hour sessions. However, this year I want to do at least one 6 hour session. I would like to spend basically the whole day having someone in bondage in various positions, changing the position as the mood takes me. I love the idea of having someone in extreme and challenging bondage at various points, but interlacing that will more mundane activities to amuse me. Something like having them in the cell or the cage locked in such a way that I could be on the other side playing a board game with them. Zapping their tender regions for every move they make on the board. I've got a few other cunning ideas but don't want to spoil the surprise too much.

2. Chastity.

This is something I've used more in session in the last year but I'd like to extend it beyond. I know this is not always practical for a lot of gentlemen but I find the idea of controlling someones orgasm and to an extent their arousal very appealing. I love the thought of texting them messages to increase the tease and torment whilst denying release. I realise this is not something new in the world of BDSM but it is new for me to want to extend control outwith the session.

3. More watersports and piss play.

This one I've done a lot of but my kinky mind is being drawn to more elaborate ways to use it with an added element. I've tended to get up close when administering watersports but I've been having lots of thoughts of making it very clinical and sci-fi like. I'm thinking a cross between mad scientist with chemistry beakers and the mechanics of a ventilator machine...forcing piss into the subject at regular intervals under the watchful eye of the sick nurse!

4. Medical bondage in the form of plaster casting.

This is something I've done years ago while wearing a different hat.  I'm now in the mood for doing it again but not in the usual way of course. I like the idea of casting one limb to another or casting the legs together fully all the way up to the thigh. That's certainly going to cause movement restriction. This is something that can't be done on a whim or even in an hour session so I'm going to have to plan it in advance but it will be worth it. A long medical session with catheterisation, breath control included will make this even more fun.

5. Cp. Again not anything new but I'm feeling the need to go further than before with Cp and especially caning this year. I just don't have enough people who can take a good hard beating, or who can have those kind of marks on them for obvious reasons. This makes me sad. Go on, make me happy and volunteer you butt for the sake of my mental health and a good workout!

So lastly here is a picture of me looking very stern and just a little cross. Exactly how I'll be in 2017 if I don't get what I want!

Keep kinky!

Lady Annisa

Saturday, 7 January 2017

Start the New Year as You Mean To Go On

So the New Year brings lots of thoughts of new starts or in many cases to start something new.

Indulging in BDSM is no different than any other pastime in that respect. The beginning of January always brings me a deluge of new applicants who have decided for one reason or another that this year is finally going to be the year they indulge in this side of life and off they toddle to the internet to get their needs met. I can honestly say that out of all the applicants that I get at this time of year around 10% pique my interest enough for me to follow up their application and an even lower percentage actually make it through the door to my premises.

There are many reasons for this, but the main one by far is that no thought, effort or research had gone into the application. They may well be the best thing since sliced bread but they've not shown that best side to me, so therefore they get discarded. They could also just be someone who is wasting my time which seems to happen more in the month of January. In fact I had one chap who would approached me every year with the same story. By about the 4th year he was a bit late with his application and I actually thought he was away annoying someone else until that inevitable email dropped into my inbox. Well dear reader I was relieved, I had been worried about him. So much so that I replied that thank goodness he had made contact, I was terribly worried, I thought something bad had happened to him in the intervening 12 months. I told him how happy I was that he had not met some terrible fate and now I can sleep soundly knowing he is still around, still writing the same old crap, still totally deluding himself and still not making it further than his own bedroom to satisfy his need. I think that might just have tipped him over the edge as the following year, in year 5 there was no contact. I do feel bad that I probably drove him to end it all (well end his ridiculous approaches that is!) #sorrynotsorry!

So without further ado I shall press on with my hints and tips for approaching a suitable Mistress. Having read this and taken it on board I'm sure you will be much more successful than the 90+ % of applicants who find their way to inboxes across the country.

1. Plan carefully.

This means doing a lot of research. Do not just wake up one morning and decide it's a new year and your balls need beaten badly and any old fecker will do. Those balls while they probably do need beaten, need to be beaten by someone who knows what they are doing.

So research. Firstly start with yourself. Decide what about BDSM draws you in. What is it you want to feel? I've spoken about it in here in this blog. Getting to know whether you want to feel controlled, humiliated, nurtured or owned will help give you a starting point for where to look to get those needs met. If you know what your motivations are then you're well on your way to finding someone who knows what to do with those motivations. Once you know the feeling start thinking about the interests that gel with that feeling. For example if you want to feel dirty and slutty and totally out of control then a full on medical session with very invasive and challenging treatments is not generally the best route to engender those feelings. If you want the adrenaline rush and an endorphin release then intense medical or corporal punishment may well be the  best route.

2. Control your urges.

Having said all of that, remember the relationship between you and the Domme is more important than the activities. When people first start out the temptation is to go looking to approach someone who looks amazing and appears to be into the things you are into. In some cases this can pan out well but mostly the best mind blowing sessions are not about how beautiful/attractive/hot the Mistress is.  It's about her skill set and how easily she can get into your mind. So when you're trawling the internet look for more than just looks or activities.

3. Dig deeper.

Look further than just the pictures on a website. There are lots of places you can check compatibility with a certain Mistress. If you're interested in sessioning with someone read her blog, go find her on twitter, look up her instagram account. Research research research. Does she have her own premises? is that important to you? Are they kept clean? Can you see if there is order in her twitter pictures or is the background a mess? Is it a shared premises? Will other slaves or Mistresses be at the premises at the same time as you? Does what she say in her blog resonate with you. Do you feel you could connect with this person. Is any of this even important to you?

4. The application.

Go through her website carefully and find out how she wants approached. If she has her telephone number but prefers email then I would suggest emailing her. Phone calls asking for information that's already on her site just makes you look like an illiterate dick. Construct the email with care. Answer any questions truthfully. If she asks for your age don't go knocking 10 years off it in the hope she is more likely to see you. Age is more relevant at the lower end of the scale, at least for me anyway as I am not interested in sessioning with an 18 year old.

If you've applied to see her before but had to postpone continuing the application tell her. There is nothing worse than someone contacting me and making no mention of a previous application. It just makes me very suspicious. Even worse don't lie if she asks if you've had contact before. I've had this happen on a few occasions and that was the end of that application. If someone is prepared to lie to me at this stage then I don't want them in my space.

Pay great attention to exactly what information she asks for. For example if she asks (like I do) how do you want to feel, what is the underlying desired state you want to experience, don't answer I would love to be fucked up the ass with a giant strap-on. This tells me you haven't read the question and you're too fixated on an actual activity. Most Mistresses I know are very creative and love nothing better than being able to craft an amazing session using many of their skills. Limiting a session to one or two activities with no room for creativity leads to very boring sessions.

Pay attention to what time of the day you are applying. This might just be something that applies to just me however. If I see an application has arrived in my inbox at 4am on a Sat or Sunday morning,  unless the applicant is from a different time zone then I'm just going to assume he has been out on the randan and is now home, horny and full of the falling down water. I never reply to these emails. Especially as they are usually sparse on the information I want and florid with gratuitous details of what he would like done to him.

Make some reference as to why you would love to session with said Mistress. What makes you think you will both connect? My best sessions and most of my regulars have come along having read every blog I've ever written which means they have a good grasp of who I am. This, for me, means they have taken the time to get to know me and is something I regard as priceless. I'm not saying you have to devour every word. Just be informed about who she is and what she stands for. This will go a long way to showing how genuine you are in your application. Many of my subs/slaves/visitors come quite a distance to see me and have said they've followed me online for years. Now they have an opportunity to session and greatly enhanced their chances with the right attitude to their application.

5. Follow up.

If she asks for more information then give it to her, and do it in a timely manner. Don't have her chasing you up for it. She will most likely have a number of applications in her inbox at any one time. So don't burden her with having her chase you for information. Likewise if she offers you an appointment in email be sure to get back to her as soon as you possibly can. If you're not able to take the appointment then the chances are someone else will but leaving her wondering if you're taking the appointment or not is inconsiderate.

If she gives you a time or time frame to call then make sure you do it. If anyone calls me out-with the phone times then they are immediately blocked. I'm not sitting here all day waiting on your call and have in fact got a life outside my Pro-Domming. So don't go calling her at 2 or 3 in the morning and expect a nice pleasant chat. If she's anything like me she will almost certainly block you once she has given you a piece of her mind.

If you are unable to call then tell her why. Don't give ridiculous excuses just tell the truth and see if you can come to some sort of arrangement for a chat. Don't go saying you've got (insert family member here) in intensive care but you'll phone as soon as the funeral is over. Stories like that just make you look unhinged. You don't need the biggest drama ever to befall just need to be honest and say you've got a lot on or that you've changed your mind. No biggie!

As I've mentioned, now you've read all of this then you're more likely to take note and construct a sensible, articulate and engaging application and you'll be over the bench of your desired Mistress before you know it. If you don't take note then you can scroll back up to the nice picture and kiss my shiny're welcome!

Keep kinky!

Lady Annisa

Tuesday, 3 January 2017

Happy New Year

Well Hello to 2017.

I cannot believe it's the beginning of a new year and I have no idea where the time has gone.

This time last year saw me planning something big. That something big meant a home move for me twice within the space of the year. Due to the whole upheaval of that, as well as the mental energy needed, many of my plans for my premises had to be put on hold. I just never got round to finalising them.

So for those interested I've still got a few modifications in the pipeline for my place which I'm hoping will definitely be completed sometime this year. Now that I've got my moves out of the way I can get back to giving my time to the planning and implementing of such endeavours.

One of my chaps had mentioned to me in session sometime in December that he thought I had been a bit lazy this year with my usual physical challenges! Don't worry dear reader, I made sure my idleness stopped there and then with the treatment (below) to his nether regions! 

However, I do concede he has a point. With that in mind I've once again embarked on my running challenge in January and as of day 2 it's going well. This challenge for those unaware is for me to run for 3 miles every day in January come hail or shine. The distance is never a challenge but getting up and heading out in all weathers is. Especially as on the odd occasion I've had to head out at 6am to fit it in to my very full and packed day. Fingers crossed I make it to day 31 again. As before, if anyone wants to join me then grab your trainers (we can let you off with the first few days). But if you're not feeling that energetic or inspired then how about making a point of adding to my fundraising for it. As usual I will have a Marie Curie box in my premises for anyone wishing to physically donate or you can get in touch and I will give you my paypal address for you to do it online. I'd be super delighted if I managed to outdo my total raised in the last few years. 

Next I am undertaking a fire-walk, surely that is both a physical and mental challenge? 

I'm also thinking of another big challenge this year which will probably be around September or October time. I just need to find the right one for me. I'm looking for something that will push me physically and mentally as I don't want it to be like some sort of jolly pampered trip. I've got my eye on something I just need to clarify one or two things with the organisers before going gung ho into it. Those who come to see me know how prepared I like to be for any challenge! 

In other news I've made a big latex order that will be arriving probably some time at the end of January. I don't want to spoil the surprise but there are one or two items that will delight the latex lover who also has a medical or bondage interest!

Lastly I'm hoping to be a bit more prolific with my posting this year. Having said that, I think that's always something I fall short on. But hey as I always say, it's always better to be doing the kinky stuff instead of talking about doing the kinky stuff!

And on that note I shall head off to look at what is on sale at my favourite bondage shop Fetters.

Keep kinky!

Lady Annisa